This week I have Jessica Gottlieb & Stefanie Pollard. I met them on Instagram. I followed them for a while and then realized we had all the same haunts.

They shop with what appears to be no guilt and I wanted some of that Koolaid.

I have talked about my shopping problem before. I feel shame for buying clothes and I love it. Like the dude who you knew did want anything but sex and you liked him more and new you would get hurt and slept with anyhow.

I don’t why I have this shopping need, I have talked about it with therapists(plural), blah! If I have the perfect outfit I will have a perfect life? Or other people with think I have a perfect life? Or is it because we shopped a lot growing up and it brings me comfort like moms oatmeal cookies for other.

If I have the perfect outfit I will have a perfect life? Or other people with think I have a perfect life? Or is it because we shopped a lot growing up and it brings me comfort like moms oatmeal cookies for other. or am I too hard on myself?

Who knows! But I do know the show notes are below and you should check them out cause they have great style and great ideas and then nice, funny people.

SHOW NOTES!

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Lisa, Jessica, Stefanie live in the same neighborhood and shops at the same stores.

It’s not shallow to want your family to look good.

Showing up looking good is a matter of confidence

How do you get to be a billionaire and not know how to wear a suit? Golf pants pantie lines. please.

Of all the things that are happening in America, Trump’s ass is the one that gets my goat.

Jessica has been blogging a super long time.

Zara: https://www.zara.com/us/en/woman/new-in-c840002.html?gclid=Cj0KCQjwtpDMBRC4ARIsADhz5O713tTGUNRBcADx39fUIr5MT4j_zTycwAUB05GeeKzd9xxyeYzKQloaAh0IEALw_wcB

Channel: http://www.chanel.com/en_US/?WT.srch=1&WT.mc_id=CO_CORPORATE__en_US_sea_20170320&WT.mc_t=sea&gclid=Cj0KCQjwtpDMBRC4ARIsADhz5O5FlNNyElmlkbh0Tt3bTihLpCFqJF-SXOxs96fGYgYGcSFnCszM75EaAvtLEALw_wcB

Fashion Square: https://www.westfield.com/fashionsquare

HA HA Club: http://hahacafecomedyclub.com/

Lisa fell in love with clothing while shopping with her dad as a little kid.

At 15 got a first credit card for Gucci https://www.gucci.com/us/en/

Victoria Secret: https://www.victoriassecret.com/?cm_mmc=SEM-_-GOOGLE-_-VSD_Brand+-+Victoria+Secret+-+Exact-_-Brand+Victoria+Secret+Exact&gclid=CjwKEAjwtpDMBRC4xebfxpzu8mUSJAA4c-Tum-z1Pxjt7kIrbY6dowJXSD9jxAcfbsThzJ1F0qP6VBoCVbXw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds

Lisa was trained on her dad’s credit cards

Lisa is really good at working, but not good at making money. This year she feels she is going to figure it the fuck out.

We don’t ask men about balance in their life.

Day Drinking is the only skill I had

It’s hard to make a marriage work in Hollywood-land

No one told me about the black poop

Life can be really scary. As you get older you notice more of the scary stuff, but this can also redirect you in wonderful ways

The secret to people who don’t really belong in your life is to just say goodbye. It’s sad, but sadder to be beaten up by the relationships in your li

Midlife crisis

25,000 people following Jessica and Stefanie on Instagram

How to Insert a Menstrual Cup: https://www.youtube.com/user/JessicaGottlieb

People abandon ship on their blog because it’s hard.

Lisa wants to live in Bali – wants to be a digital nomad

Going on vacation is difficult

You need to learn to manage your time so that you will not be doing work at the dinner table. Family first. Unless we’re being showered with money…in that case my family can suck it.

I come from a family that is much smarter than me

Jessica and Stefanie balance each other very well.

Stefanie believes in buying classic things

I need space in between everything in my closet

Butler’s closet filled with cashmere

Lisa cuts her own bangs

Thyroid problems

Mom would pick up laundry every day

Lisa lost her mom 10 years ago. Has long discussions in the shower with her.

Lisa’s mom bought her a dress a Saks http://www.saksfifthavenue.com/Entry.jsp

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